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Lasting change is possible with specialised psychological support.

Therapy for borderline, narcissistic, avoidant and other personality disorders — using Schema Therapy, DBT, and other evidence-based approaches.

Psychological support for personality disorders

Key information you should know

  • Personality disorders are treatable with specialised therapy — particularly DBT, Schema Therapy, and Mentalisation-Based Therapy.
  • A personality disorder diagnosis is not a label that defines you — it's a starting point for the right kind of support.
  • Our psychologists are experienced in working with complex personality presentations, including borderline (BPD), narcissistic, and avoidant patterns.

Signs you might benefit from personality disorders support

  • Intense, unstable relationships — close one moment, distant the next
  • Difficulty regulating emotions; reactions feel disproportionate
  • A pervasive sense of emptiness or that something is 'wrong' inside
  • Patterns that keep showing up — work, relationships, identity — despite your best efforts
  • Impulsive behaviours when emotionally overwhelmed
  • Self-harm or recurrent thoughts of suicide
  • A sense of identity that shifts depending on who you're with

How therapy can help with personality disorders

Personality disorder labels describe long-standing patterns in relationships, emotion, identity, and behaviour. They can feel stigmatising, yet they also point toward therapies that genuinely help, such as DBT or schema-focused work.

Treatment focuses on emotion regulation, interpersonal skills, and understanding patterns without blame. Many people make meaningful gains over time with consistent, specialised support.

Psychologists who support personality disorders

12 psychologists with experience in personality disorders.

Common questions about personality disorders

What is a personality disorder?

A personality disorder describes long-standing patterns of thinking, feeling, and relating that cause distress and difficulty in relationships and daily life. Types include borderline, avoidant, and others. The term can sound heavy, but it is really a starting point for understanding patterns that often developed as ways of coping. These patterns can change with the right support, and a diagnosis does not define who you are.

How do I know if this applies to me?

You might notice recurring difficulties with emotions, self-image, or relationships that have been present for a long time and feel hard to shift. Intense emotions, fear of abandonment, unstable relationships, or a persistent sense of emptiness are examples people sometimes describe. Only a qualified clinician can assess this properly, and doing so is not about labelling you, but about finding the most helpful support.

Can therapy help with a personality disorder?

Yes. Personality difficulties are treatable, and structured, evidence-based therapies can help significantly. Dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT), schema therapy, and mentalisation-based approaches are commonly used, particularly for borderline patterns. These build skills for managing emotions, understanding relationships, and responding differently to distress. A steady, trusting therapeutic relationship is central, and change tends to build gradually over time.

How long does this kind of therapy take?

Therapy for personality-related difficulties is generally longer-term, because it works with patterns that developed over many years. Your psychologist will set goals with you and review progress regularly, and you stay in control of the pace. You do not need a referral to book, and a GP Mental Health Treatment Plan may provide Medicare rebates on individual sessions each calendar year.

What are the different types of personality disorders?

Personality disorders are usually grouped into three clusters. One cluster involves patterns that can seem withdrawn or mistrustful, another involves intense emotions and difficulties in relationships, including borderline and narcissistic patterns, and the third involves anxious or fearful patterns, such as avoidant and dependent. Many people do not fit neatly into one category, and the labels matter less than understanding your own patterns and finding support that genuinely helps.

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